George Harris, Kansas City Star Reader Advisory Panel

Congressman Joe Wilson yelled "You lie" to President Barack Obama in last night's address to Congress and has now been coerced by his own party's leadership into giving an apology to the president. So exactly what did Mr. Wilson apologize for?

The president had already "called out" as liars those who claimed proposed health care reform would create "death panels" and provide health coverage to illegal immigrants. Wasn't Mr. Wilson just returning the accusation? And why is it ok to disrupt a Senator or Congressman at a town hall meeting but not the president during a presidential address?

Answer: It's pretty darned rude in either venue. Especially the one finger salute Mr. Wilson apparently gave the president.

On the other hand, I love watching British Prime Ministers handling the boo birds at a session in their House of Commons. But it's not the tradition here, and the insults in those sessions have an artful quality to them that was lacking in Mr. Wilson's outburst.

Though maybe if we saw our president and members of congress in the give and take of such a debate, there would be less need for citizens to create a scene.

But there has to be someplace for leaders to give an address to the public without undue interruption. Otherwise, elected officials will quit talking to the public in public places and will script every appearance to avoid a fracas. That is the unfortunate impact of incivility and a reason to create venues for uninterrupted speech as well as opportunities for debate.

Another question is whether it's ok to say an opponent is lying when you've got the stage and microphone. I say yes. Congressman Wilson. like President Obama, has every right to say what he thinks. So do ordinary citizens who get to decide whom to believe.

Mr. Wilson, however, doesn't have the bully pulpit of the presidency to speak to the nation. Too bad for him, but he didn't get elected to the presidency and even his own party seems to recognize that not everywhere and anytime are appropriate for some conduct.