By Ross Balano, Midwest Voices Columnist 2008
Yesterday’s ruling by the California Supreme Court overturned a law defining marriage by saying, "only marriage between a man and a woman is valid and recognized in California."
Proposition 22, as it was called, was passed overwhelmingly getting over 61% of the vote even in a state that usually leans liberal and now the court has basically told the people that they don’t matter.
This more evidence to remind us not to be afraid of amendments to our constitutions in Missouri and Kansas.
I remember when the Missouri amendment was about to be voted on. The Kansas City Star at the time editorialized against it. I paraphrase; you shouldn’t tamper with the constitution they claimed. Besides, they said, we don’t need an amendment to the constitution because we already have a law on the books in Missouri.
Yesterday the California Supreme Court reminded us why we should not listen to such arguments as made by The Star back then. No law or the will of the people is safe as long as activist judges populate benches across the country. Four judges overturned the will of 61% of the people.
In my opinion, this should never have been considered a constitutional issue to begin with. To attach minority status to same sex couples is absurd. Since when do we grant minority status to anyone based on a particular behavior? That’s what California has done.
Defenders will say that those couples are born that way. I might agree with that but that is still not a compelling case for minority status. Many people have desires that they are born with, some good, some bad that do not reflect the feelings of the majority of people. Shall we grant them all minority status? How about those who desire more than one wife (I have no idea why)? Count them as a minority? Or maybe people should be allowed to marry their sister or brother. Do they get minority status?
There are countless others that are frankly to disgusting to mention but the point is that minority status shouldn’t be granted on the basis of desires or behaviors.
Happily, the people of Missouri and Kansas had the good sense to ignore The Star and approved our amendment before some judge took the vote away from us.









I'm sure if this question had been asked in 1950: Do you believe bi-racial couples should be allowed to marry? A majority of respondents would have said no. Thankfully "activist" judges at the time acted on the Constitution (at both state and federal levels) to eliminate this denial of basic civil rights.
Personally, I think the government should get out of the marriage game altogether. The government should recognize civil unions only, and regardless of race, sexual orientation, whatever, two people can choose to be partners with all the legal rights currently given to married couples. Let individuals and their spiritual communities define what marriage is.
I just don't understand why some heterosexual couples feel threatened by gay marriage. My wife and I have never felt our marriage was any weaker as a result of our friends in same-sex relationships getting married. Perhaps the people so afraid of same-sex marriage are still struggling with their own sexuality and afraid that their own marriage wouldn't stand if given the alternative to marry someone of the same sex. That's the only sense I can make out of some people's strong opposition to this.